coworker,if she remember where she 'hid her cigarettes and lighter on. farside said: My wife and I have been married for seven years and over the course of our relationship I have kept something from her: I have a fetish for women that smoke. 2. When I first started smoking cigarettes in my early 20s, it just kind of happened a cigarette here and there, usually at a bar, sometimes on His parents smoked, and he hated it. My extended family smoked and is now dying from it. I stayed with him prior to going into surgery. The only way you can get a sure answer is by talking to him. Only show this user. When he got back from deployment, he confessed he did smoke and had started when he deployed. You can ask every smoker what would be the one wish they could have granted and 95% of them would respond "I wish I never started smoking". And let me state upfront here- -you have a right to an opinion. Regina-Phalange. Started smoking again!! But there is truth. But I'm horrendously addicted to them. About a year after that I would notice different porn on his computer. John Barleycorn. 9. She stands in a tight dress as she Skypes with her boyfriend and tells him how much she misses him and that she has a surprise for him. I always thought he was a big anti-smoker. His parents smoked, and he hated it. smokingagain Wed 30-Apr-03 22:58:14. There are lots of possible reasons for this. Please don't start actually smoking and inhaling. I started because of my boyfriend, hed always smoked and, though i wasnt anti smoking, i wasnt a particular fan either but i tolerated my boyfriend smoking. Sometimes more. Then, 9 months ago, he told me he had a smoking fetish. Now I smoke a pack a day, on a good stress-free day. Stay physically active to help ease bodily tension.Let friends and family members know when you need support or space.Avoid situations that you find anxiety-provoking, such as loud, crowded parties.Practice relaxation techniques, such as meditation.Establish sleep rituals and avoid caffeine too close to bedtime. I had one last night and it felt so good, i've had 3 today. In the bathroom, I spritz some lavender body spray and walk through the mist. Hope You All Enjoy.Please Subscribe. It was incredibly romantic and relaxing and a wonderful time. He actually bought an external hard drive for his computer because his collection of porn got so huge. Answer (1 of 4): Why does everyone assume its her and their relationship? In fact, smoking makes Alzheimer's less likely. I would think they are ways you could indulge him in this fantasy without endangering your health. I am starting to feel good about myself again. I was trying to get pregnant and then I did and stayed quit. I had not ever smoked weed in my life. Mar 18, 2008. Sep 10, 2018 at 9:57 PM. Oct 28, 2012. When i met him he said he'd quit but then it started again and i realised it was an every day thing. She was 17, I was 19, and it was hopelessly romantic to smoke cigarettes and talk all night. Anyway I started smoking socially again as that was the only way I could handle him smoking, I know that many people on here will think I am off my rocker and maybe I am a bit weird but for some reason while I was with him and I was smoking too I could tolerate the disgusting habit. Growing up, I had a lot of friends. My only issue is, Jeremy has an obsession/fetish with women smoking cigarettes. It could be your husband is going through something hes internalized and smoking gives him some stress relief. Let him indulge in activities that make him happy, even if you may dislike it. I am supposed to quit soon according to my husband. I recently married the most amazing man in the whole world, "Jeremy." He made this wonderful promise that he would quit because he knew it bothered me before we got married. Dear Abby: I am a 28-year-old female. So my resolution is to start smoking some full-flavor cigarette and continue until I'm smoking at least 5 a day. If your husband or wife comes to you and says they are going to start using pot and you are uncomfortable with that, ideally they should submit to your opinion and avoid using marijuana. As you must know cigarette smoking is known to cause cancer and is considered dangerous to ones health. We connect, communicate, understand and love everything about each other. My wife used to smoke a half pack a day of Marlboro Reds. In reply to: Ron 's message, "Re: How I started smoking at age 40" on 23:56:58 02/05/02 Tue. After I had been smoking about three months, my husband had semi-emergency surgery. That is the critical phase, and around 95% fail at that point. I have been with my husband for seven years and he has been a non smoker the entire time, or at least what I thought to be the entire time. back saying not there any place else,co worker stated try filing. I have been feeling very stressed for a while now and fed up about everything. I started because of my boyfriend, hed always smoked and, though i wasnt anti smoking, i wasnt a particular fan either but i tolerated my boyfriend smoking. Two years ago he started smoking again. One day, he decided to fulfill this fetish by getting his wife to start the habit of smoking. My husband wasn't a smoker when we met. Kudos to you for wanting to! My husband recently revealed his smoking fetish fantasy. After we got married, I thought it would be nice if he could share smokes with me, so I started coaxing him to try it. That is not news. My husband and I got into a habit in the evening of sitting out in the garden in the lovely cool summers and talking. I quit 15 years ago for 4 years. I was kind of freaked at first. I will rise above the smoke. Scene 2: Skyping With Her Boyfriend. He was a smoker and it always made me want to smoke with him. Started smoking again!! That was years ago now. After I had been smoking about three months, my husband had semi-emergency surgery. Here we go! He's smart, thoughtful, kind, and sexy - I love him. Let's rewind a little. Perfectly normal, my sissy husband loves watching me smoke. break,co worker said OK.a few minutes later my wife wrote asking. MsLonely. Mostly trough school but some of my closest friends also happened to be my neighbors. Do you want him to have a habit when he comes come, constantly smoking indoors, or going outside for a smoke, smelling like dirt, constantly needing to go buy more cigs or tabacco, etc. (13 Posts) Add message | Report. She reveals a cigarette and lights it up for him. I have had this nagging desire to go out and buy cigarettes for a few weeks and yesterday I did! He's smart, thoughtful, kind, and sexy - I love him. Dogzilla October 3, 2000, 2:06pm #8. He has been working out of state for the last six months and during date night Saturday night he casually disclosed to me that he's been smoking one cigarette a day for the last five Date Posted: 00:06:13 02/06/02 Wed. OT: Husband started smoking. He is stressed out and under pressure so he is smoking. On week days when he gets home from work and on weekends usually after lunch. I have impressionable teens in my house. My extended family smoked and is You can put the effects of your partners smoking into perspective by doing the following:Provide a cost analysis. Discuss how this habit isolates them and even you from social situations that dont allow smoking.Express that you want to live a long life with them in it, and youre concerned that their smoking wont make that possible. He asked one evening for me to smoke during sex, I did he absolutely loved it. One of the biggest triggers of smoking habit is stress. I'm a smoker and i absolutely hate it. He eventually agreed to quit when I said I didn't really like it and was worried about his health. (13 Posts) Add message | Report. Smoking of any kind is nearly impossible to hide, especially from your spouse. Try and keep the home stress free and joyful. If possible, speak to his friends who can help him face stressful situations easily. If I don't like them then, I can quit. I was so naive that I had never heard of it. She is so sexy when she smokes. By Anonymous Jan 20, 2018 We dont know you, him, your marriage or your current situation so I would do everything in my power to have her quit. My husband is a pot smoker. I have had this nagging desire to go out and buy cigarettes for a few weeks and yesterday I did! About 15 months ago, I started seeing a new guy. The next scene takes place 2 weeks after she started smoking and Amber has learned how to smoke sexy. My husband recently revealed his smoking fetish fantasy. Then they had a delay. I'm really excited by this. It's a descent into a vastly inferior lifestyle. He was in-between jobs, my baby got meningitis and life was stressful. Date Posted: 00:06:13 02/06/02 Wed. I want my husband to keep chain smoking, said no wife ever. She initially acted as though she was excited (she's wanted to move-in together for a long time and I've been ambivalent). I got pregnant (unplanned) and he promised he'd quit - and he did quit until our baby was about 6 months old.. Except for me. my wife stayed its 2:30 time for my smoke. Anyway, the more I think about it the more excited I get -- and it will blow my husband's mind. In the past seven years, Ive watched as signs of his habit slowly creep across his boyish face, his working mans hands, his gentle smile. If I don't like them then, I can quit. So I did because I loved him so much that I would do anything for him. I also started my wife smoking, back when we first started dating. His smoking costs us almost $4,000 a year. My husband quit and then started again and then quit again and finally took to smoking out of sight. After months of no success, he finally relented. Cathy started smoking cigarettes years ago for her smoker husband named Paul. About 15 months ago, I started seeing a new guy. In reply to: Ron 's message, "Re: How I started smoking at age 40" on 23:56:58 02/05/02 Tue. My husband and I are in our fifties and have been very happily married for 32 years. This was a bit of a shock coming from him, he is a health nut! Unfortunately, I think we have to eliminate this option straight away. Got my Husband to start smoking. Sorry I have very strong feelings about this. Answer (1 of 16): Hi Im Lacis wife. I always thought he was a big anti-smoker. By Anonymous Jan 20, 2018 I have been with my husband for seven years and he has been a non smoker the entire time, or at least what I thought to be the entire time. After wed been together about 8 months and, at times, he had tried to persuade me to try a cigarette, id got to the point where i was becoming quite irritable about him smoking. I was so naive that I had never heard of it. But I'm a closet smoker. My husband Eric has smoked a pack a day (or more) since I met him. Perfectly normal, my sissy husband loves watching me smoke. My story is more about how I succumbed to temptation and how I started smoking again. The nicotine withdrawal of the last 5 days has been physically tough: Nausea, sweats, headaches, and a feeling of emptiness. I started smoking at work and while driving, on a regular basis. In addition, second hand smoke, inhaled by those around the individual who is smoking is equally dangerous to health. He nevers does that. Tell your spouse how you feel. At one point I was up to half a pack a day of Marlboro's, but I was able to cut back alot on my own. It didnt take him much to do it. Rewards work well for successful stints without smoking.Aversion therapy (like Pavlok) can help to quit the habit.Determining and avoiding the habits and behaviors that lead to smoking. We both agreed we would NOT smoke. My story is more about how I succumbed to temptation and how I started smoking again. We are both non-smokers and she is very anti-smoking and has nagged her father to quit for years. Then recently he went back to smoking. You absolutely do! 1. Please don't start actually smoking and inhaling. I would think they are ways you could indulge him in this fantasy without endangering your health. PlentyOfPubeGardens Fri 26-Jun-15 21:11:47. Dear Harriette: I am at my wits end. I loved to see her smoke. I had one last night and it felt so good, i've had 3 today. Answer (1 of 16): Hi Im Lacis wife. So my resolution is to start smoking some full-flavor cigarette and continue until I'm smoking at least 5 a day. Anyway, the more I think about it the more excited I get -- and it will blow my husband's mind. Before she started smoking, she was a good girl.Young, athletic, brilliant, a strong member of the 8th grade pom team, and a normal student. Then came high school, and with it, influences beyond her wildest imagination.New people, new sensations, havin' a party life. A smoke every now and then helps mellow things out.Then came marijuana, and boy what a rush that was! Or so he thought. He always had a smoking fetish as a child and was helplessly addicted to it. We really clicked and started dating. Ask him why he all of a sudden wants to be an inferior person. I stayed with him prior to going into surgery. My husband smokes weed every day. We both smoked for 1-2 months and finally I told her I wanted her to stop smoking and go to therapy before we moved in together. How Should I Respond To My Husband When He Badgers Me To Start Smoking To Satisfy His Cigarette Fetish? Then they had a delay. One day, my very healthy athletic When my husband and I started dating three years ago, we both had a strong opposition to smoking. This was a bit of a shock coming from him, he is a health nut! After wed been together about 8 months and, at times, he had tried to persuade me to try a cigarette, id got to the point where i was becoming quite irritable about him smoking. Now, often, I smoke multiple times a day. 6. level 1. We recently had this fight and right after the argument we went to a restaurant and he ordered a beer. Sep 10, 2018 at 9:57 PM. I quit smoking right before we met. Hi everyone. Now two years later my baby is a beautiful healthy child, my husband has a great job, and he smokes two packs a week. I was kind of freaked at first. He was a smoker and it always made me want to smoke with him. Kicking snow over my ashes, I head inside, washing my hands at the kitchen sink. I selfishly wanted her to smoke more. :rolleyes: I think Ill smoke for a while more and thn quit. Something A Bit Different. Never over a pack and a half. He asked one evening for me to smoke during sex, I did he absolutely loved it. So, the first thing you should tell him is that hes not alone. When my husband and I started dating three years ago, we both had a strong opposition to smoking. I recently married the most amazing man in the whole world, 'Jeremy.'. 1 Ask your husband to stop smoking for the sake of those around him, chiefly you and your son. and co worker/smoker. Kudos to you for wanting to! My wife has started smoking, and the image of her doing that eats me up. In one of the posts from this Reddit user, not only does he hate seeing his spouse smoke, but its actually making him think about separation.For something thats supposed to relieve stress, smoking can eventually destroy a relationship. Unless you completely avoid all levels of closeness and intimacy in your relationship, smoking is a habit that leaves traces on even the most careful person. I began when I was 13 and smoke a pack and a half a day of Benson and Hedges. Keep the home environment happy. I'm really excited by this. smokingagain Wed 30-Apr-03 22:58:14. It's rotten that he started smoking again after so long but it's actually really, really good that he's switched to vaping. Then he made me start smoking because he said he thought it was sexy. I have a fiery determination and indefinite patience to remain free from smoking. My husband and I got into a habit in the evening of sitting out in the garden in the lovely cool summers and talking. Friday.co worker stated no try looking in top desk drawer, wife wrote. I quit smoking right before we met. In addition, second hand smoke, inhaled by those around the individual who is smoking is equally dangerous to health. We connect, communicate, understand and love everything about each other. This was upsetting to me but because I understood how stressed he was I didnt want to put more pressure on him. Anyway I started smoking socially again as that was the only way I could handle him smoking, I know that many people on here will think I am off my rocker and maybe I am a bit weird but for some reason while I was with him and I was smoking too I could tolerate the disgusting habit. Hi everyone. As you must know cigarette smoking is known to cause cancer and is considered dangerous to ones health. Answer (1 of 4): Most of the smokers that stop cold turkey go back to smoking six months to one year after they stopped. I love being a smoker. I actually didn't start smoking until after I started nursing school (been smoking approx 15 months). Other girls smoking. We both smoked for 1-2 months and finally I told her I wanted her to stop smoking and go to therapy before we moved in together. He has eliminated almost all the harm from smoking so try to support him in this if you at all can. She initially acted as though she was excited (she's wanted to move-in together for a long time and I've been ambivalent). In fact, smoking makes Alzheimer's less likely. I smoke a pack a day, same brand. Now, while I still smoke, I might smoke that in a week. I have been feeling very stressed for a while now and fed up about everything. Regina-Phalange. Getting wife to smoke. Keep in mind, oddly enough, these "closest friends" were not in my school. HUSBAND IS NOT COURTEOUS WHEN SMOKING POT. We really clicked and started dating. Then, 9 months ago, he told me he had a smoking fetish. Many moons ago, my husband started smoking (he didn't when we met), he got really bad at one point and would be going out to smoke in our garden every hour or so. One night my husband offered me a puff of his cigarette and I took it.